Kickass Coaching Program
You will never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
Everything seemed so surreal at first.
It was weird the day you walked into the kitchen, and your spouse wasn’t there to fight with you anymore.
Your head throbbed as you started the day, not quite sure where the night went; you know you were probably grinding your teeth all night, though.
The kids are waiting for their breakfast, and they are “off” today – one is crying because she can’t find her stuffed bunny, and the other is grumpy as he stabs his spoon into the cereal bowl, not eating anything.
What a fine day to be separated, you think to yourself.
You filed your Petition for Divorce – a liberating experience.
Yeah, but liberating for whom? As you shuffle the kids into the car to go to school, your mind on autopilot, you ponder what your expectations should be as you divorce.
As you drop your kids off at school, you think, “Fair, amicable, equitable” – “What do these words even mean?” Your divorce is full of conflict, LOTS of it.
You became the object of sheer HATE the minute you filed for divorce.
Now, you are the subject of your spouse’s mission to erase you from this earth through many different means.
Those means include – Motions – thick ones and throwing money at the case – lots of it.
You think, “Time – where did my spouse get all this time to spend creating new ways to hurt me?”
And the worst one is Power. You only thought your spouse had lots of Power as your marriage descended into a crippling mess during your fights.
But now…
You finally realize that your Ex has another side you didn’t know about (or didn’t want to see).
The word for it is narcissistic.
Your spouse’s mission is to use you to gain perhaps an identity to make them feel better about themselves and tap into your personality and all your good qualities for as long as humanly possible. Or until you either catch on or drop out from weakness after years of having your good qualities sucked out.
Your spouse’s weakness is calling a spade a spade. You see, the minute you filed that Petition, you exposed the narcissist’s weaknesses, and your Ex has no other emotion to express but hatred.
You find yourself in the middle of an expensive, high-conflict divorce.
Now, every day feels worse than the last.
The words “stuck” and “chaotic” begin to describe how awful each day is.
You wonder how much your kids believe your Ex’s lies about you, which horrifies you because your children are your world.
All these thoughts and feelings leave you feeling hopeless.
But the story doesn’t have to end dismally here.
There is hope for those going through a high conflict divorce with a narcissist, and it’s just beginning. Trying to deal with these conflicts is when the Kickass Coaching Program comes into play and when a High Conflict Divorce Coach is most valuable.
Let me help you regain financial, emotional, and intellectual control of your circumstances. I will be that partner with whom you can meet, call, and text. You’ll learn a whole new skill set, leading to a winning outcome – for you.
If you want control, you will learn how to manage emotions, decrease time and money spent in court, learn to deal with your Ex’s personality, and eliminate self-defeating dynamics.
You will truly see what it is like to “kick-ass” in divorce through simple behavioral changes and skills management. Don’t let another day of chaos and doubt cause you to worry and affect your children.
What Makes This the Right Program for you?
In a standard divorce, people have grown apart for various reasons
and decide they would rather live the rest of their lives apart rather than married.